The Most Livable City
I read an article recently in The Japan Times about how a British lifestyle magazine, Monocle, has declared Tokyo the most livable city in the world. I am thrilled to hear this because as you know, I’m a bit obsessed with Tokyo. It has impressed us so much, it needs more recognition and I CANNOT or will not stop bragging about this place. It’s by far my favorite city in the world. I mean, I love Paris, but Tokyo is just so damn impressive. But I’m excited it made the most livable city in the world.
After living there for 4 years, I can honestly say that I don’t look at things the same anymore. It’s flat ruined me. I expect things to be better, more efficient. It’s proof that society can function without weapons, crime, road rage, and even master the art of efficient and safe public transportation. The police don’t even carry guns! I can walk my dog at 3 AM without worry and children are sent to school without worry on public transportation at super young ages. Tokyo truly is the most livable city in the world.
And the cafes, oh the cafes and the craft coffeehouses. This isn’t a hipster scene, it’s just the way it is. It’s the norm here in Japan to do things to the very best of one’s ability. And the gardens, oh the gardens. The respect for the environment and nature is simply awesome. The general respect for everything is what I think is the glue to this society.
Tokyo has earned high marks for its DEFINING PARADOX OF HEART-STOPPING SIZE AND CONCURRENT FEELING OF PEACE AND QUIET
BOOM!!! There it is. The thing I miss more than anything in the world about Tokyo is that it’s MUCH greater in size and content than even NYC but it feels so incredibly peaceful and small. A society built upon Zen Buddhism? How brilliant.
Since returning to the States, I’ve visited Houston, Boston, and NYC, but I quickly become overwhelmed in each of these cities and typically find myself somewhere off the beaten path exploring smaller towns. But Tokyo makes it totally possible to have both the large and small-town experience together. You have a big city but without all the big city bullshit and chaos.
It’s surreal how a city so crowded and so dense can feel so tranquil and even quiet. At the famous Shibuya Crossing, one of the busiest intersections in the world, people scurry out the way before the light turns green because you don’t want to linger in the intersection when the light changes.
And at midnight at an empty intersection in Tokyo, you’ll actually see people waiting for the light to change rather than simply jaywalking. True, you can cross and no one will see, but it’s their strict respect for rules that keep order. Though arguably, some Japanese feel the rules are too strict, but I guess I can appreciate how nice it is when everyone follows them. It creates order. There’s a flow to society, it keeps moving, it’s smooth like a well-oiled machine. This is precisely what makes Tokyo the best city in the world.
You rarely hear honking. At the grocery store, people put up their shopping carts to prevent hitting other cars. It’s considered rude to ring your bicycle bell at people, people don’t shout or talk on the phone on the train. It’s considered incredibly inconsiderate. I’ve taken the train at rush hour, many a time in Tokyo, packed up like a sardine. It’s not fun, but I never felt uncomfortable though. The trains are a place of peace and quiet. I can ride five minutes on the Boston metro and I can’t wait to get off.
Transitioning back to the States, I’ve felt the most amount of frustration in this department, you know, obvious signs of inefficiency or chaos. Seeing just how advanced Japanese society is, it’s made me question, why can’t we do that too? Why can’t the rest of the world be so peaceful and safe? I realize these are very deep-rooted questions with complex answers. But yes, good job Japan. Props to you for mastering the art of running a utopian society.
My daughter has taught in Tokyo for 20+ years and loves the city…so safe and so much to do at any time of day or night. I have been a few times and enjoyed having a train pass to visit other areas of Japan. I always felt safe and well cared for even in budget rooms and local restaurants. Seeing cute 5 year olds with colorful beanies take the subway on their own was amazing to me!
Not only Tokyo. It is like that all over. I live in Aomori and it is the same here. I marvel at the country and society they have made for themselves here and why we can’t emulate it in the U.S.
It’s been a lifelong dream of mine to go to Japan, and I’m really hoping to make it later this year or April 2016. I’ve bookmarked your site for future reference 🙂
Hi Andrea! That’s great to hear, Japan is definitely on of my favorite countries. I’ll be writing a lot more about it in the future too, so let me know if you have any questions!
Also, since you’re going in April, if you’re a fan of gardens you may be able to catch the beautiful Wisteria in Japan
Wow, that place looks absolutely beautiful! Thanks for the recommendation.
Will definitely be in touch with questions closer to the time 🙂
Great to hear!
Never visited Japan but we frequently encounter Japanese tourists and almost always I feel ashamed of Sri Lankans behavior compared to the Japanese. As you’ve mentioned in the article it all comes down one simple fact. Respect for others.
Thanks Mark, I’m glad you could identify. I feel like the world would be a much more peaceful place if everyone just respected others more. It’s really so simple, you’re right.
Loved the article and I too wonder why the rest of the world cannot operate like Japan! When I went to Tokyo, I was also surprised that even though it was so large in terms of size and population, it definitely feels much less crowded than here in NYC 😀
Thank you! I wish they could! I recently visited NYC and although it’s so much smaller than Tokyo, it was just way too overwhelming. They’re definitely doing something right.
Thank you! Japan is a great country.